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It's cool
to go nude is just one of the many comments I heard from people day in
and day out when I was the Manager
of the The Terra Cotta Inn Clothing
Optional Resort in Palm Springs California.
I am proud to
be a Latina (although I am even prouder to be and American). In my
culture all women are considered beautiful. We are not brought up
with the odd concept that being nude is shameful. Shame is used by
people to make you feel inferior. To the contrary, Latina's are
strong and beautiful women. Our bodies are to be respected.
That is why there are more nude beaches in Spain than any other country
in Europe. Or look to Brazil, and you will understand that you
shouldn't be covering up. Instead the more skin that is exposed in
public, the more beautiful and sensual the woman. Michelangelo
correctly understood the beauty of the naked human body. The major
reason more women are not comfortable with sharing their nudity with
others is they are rarely exposed to the concept that it is OK to be
nude in a nonsexual way. That is why my resort is so
popular. We are only for couples, we operate very conservatively,
everyone is naked all day long, and they are very friendly and
respectful of each other. That is why we have over a 75% repeat
guest rate with couples from around the world that stay with us.
There is power
in going nude in front of others. You develop your
self-confidence. You become very comfortable talking with others
while you have no clothes on and this confidence carries over to
everyday life. The same is true when you share nude pictures of
yourself on beautiful sites such as yours. The more women that are
tastefully portrayed nude on sites such as yours, the more women will be
respected in our society.
I want to
encourage other young women to enjoy the freedom of being nude.
For when you are no longer afraid to bare your body with other people,
you have truly liberated your mind and soul. Plus, it is just
plain fun running around naked in the fresh air with friends and not
have to worry how some dumb bathing suit looks on you.
Here are my
ideas about nude recreation. I want to encourage young females to
enjoy nude sunbathing. My suggestion is when you try nude
sunbathing for the first time, do it privately with friends or at a nice
clothing optional resort like ours that caters to couples. We have
guys that call us everyday saying that they had made a mistake.
They had gone to a nude beach where there were so many single guys that
were staring at the women that their wife/girlfriend felt very uncomfortable and refused to ever go to a nude beach again. They
then searched on the web, found our place and needed advice on how to
get their wife/girlfriend to try nude sunbathing again. So many
times, I talk with the woman and reassure them that we are for couples,
so they can feel very comfortable. I say that even though 99% of
our guests go nude sunbathing, women can start in a bathing suit, long
t-shirt, etc. until they become comfortable. We find that once the
couple gets here, the wives/girlfriends completely forget about their
bad first experience at a nude beach and they have a blast at our
resort.
We
find many men are afraid to ask a lady to a clothing
optional resort, so they want to come by themselves. The first
thing I ask is "have you asked your wife/girlfriend if she wants to
vacation here?" Amazingly almost every man says no, they were
too afraid to ask their wife/girlfriend. That is where I say, look
at our web site and discuss our resort with your wife/girlfriend.
You would be amazed at how many men call back to book saying that they
discussed trying our resort and although their wife/girlfriend is
nervous, they want to try our place since it is so nice. They then
end up being our repeat guests. If you are in a happy, strong
relationship, where you both love and trust each other, it is very rare
that a couple will not try going to a nice clothing optional resort
together. The truth is most women end up really loving the freedom
of being nude with others much more than men do and once a lady feels
comfortable they will never give up social nudism and
naturism.
There is power
in going nude with others. You develop your self confidence.
You become very comfortable talking with others while you have no
clothes on and this confidence carries over to everyday life. I
have been nude with executives of over 100 companies, and felt
completely comfortable and as an equal to them, not like some 22 year
old college student. I see this with all our other guests here
too, where their comfort level with themselves increases because they go
nude. I can think of no better way for a woman to feel more
comfortable about her body and her husband/boyfriend, than relaxing at a
clothing optional resort together. Now don't get me wrong. I also
love beautiful clothes. I love to go dancing with my boyfriend and
wear sexy clothing and have him tell me how pretty I am. However,
when I go nude, I enjoy the freedom of choice. Going nude
sunbathing has made me a strong woman and I am completely comfortable
with who I am. I want to encourage other young women to just take
off those clothes and enjoy the
freedom and excitement of being nude. This way you will no longer have to be
shackled by what Cosmo or Glamour Magazine say you have to be..!
Candy :-)
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